Relationships are complex partnerships spanning across the world with no part left out, but what happens when you introduce cannabis into a relationship where the other person does not smoke or use cannabis. Speaking of course from pure personal experience having a relationship where only one use's cannabis is like the executioners axe waiting to drop at the first sign of trouble. They may say its ok and they are fine with it but are they really? no freaking way! even if they sometimes use cannabis and you worship it, one day more then likely this subject is going to smack you across the face sooner or later. You do not have to believe me and you can sit there shaking your head that it won't happen but this is because your still probably in the honey moon stage. Couples argue about everything hell couples argue about who takes a NUMBER 2 first!! so coming to an understanding that your use of cannabis is going to get brought up one time or another in a fight shouldn't be thought of as outside the box. It is so very easy to see problems with this and I can even perdict some of what might be said such as
Instance #1
You: Why are you so mad?
Them: Cause all you do is smoke cannabis all day You: hahaha
Them: Is something funny?!!!!
You: Your face looks funny :DThem: WTF!!!!!!
Instance #2
Them: Did you spend a ton of money on pot again!!!!!!
You: Um maybe...
Them: You are soooo dead!!!
You: Please don't kill me - poker face :D
Basically if you are already in a relationship where your girlfriend or boyfriend does not smoke pot or as much as you do then one day that ticking time bomb could go off and you are the target, and the sad thing is there is nothing you can do about it. For those who are single absolutely avoid these kinds of relationships it's just not worth the headache. Really this is common sense but for those searching for relationship advice involving cannabis here it is. Do not try to get your partner to stop smoking its pointless and you have no right, and if you are the one who smokes do not try and convince the other one to smoke pot because that's peer pressure.
I truly feel sorry for those who entered into a marriage with someone who doesn't smoke cannabis like you do. First off you better have gotten a prenuptial because guess what! yes they can use everything against you in court during a divorce because in most countries you need to have a reason to get a divorce right!? well you smoke pot don't you? aha now you see. They can bring up drugs as a reason for divorce meaning it's time to cut all your funiture in half because they are getting it 100%
I think the worst issue is involving children. First off I do not support weed around kids but if you are off at friends house's or anywhere away from the children then well it's up to you im not going to judge but my point is if you smoke cannabis and your spouse doesn't then when getting a divorce and having to fight in a custody battle expect to lose if they can prove you smoke cannabis. Even forcing you to take a drug test which in another article we talk about home drug test kits to protect yourself and that can be viewed HERE
Final thoughts
As you can now tell there is many risk's getting into a relationship like this and if you still need perspective imagine a relationship replacing the cannabis issue and put alcohol in. Being in a relationship with a alcoholic is about the worst thing possible and the best way is to spot the signs beforehand. Same with cannabis If you smoke, look for other smokers.
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